How To Create The Life Of Your Dream: 33 steps to forestall sincerely having a pipe dream

Take these 33 steps to forestall sincerely having a pipe dream about your dream life and to start accomplishing it today living a life by design starts with knowing what that is. Everything flows from the vision of your right and ideal private and professional life. Knowing what kind of life you want to create gives you unstoppable power. Clarity is key in the quest for the life of your dreams. After discussing the loss of their dream home, they decided to let go, relax and trust that the right home was out there and would come to them (release). A week later their real estate agent called again. Another home had just become available. It was so new that the agent didn''t have any details; however, Lynda and Steve decided to look at it the next day. The house was not only perfect, it was within walking distance from the lake and had an outbuilding that could be converted into a studio for Lynda. They made an offer there and then and it was accepted. The Approval Default Setting causes us to go against what we truly believe in. The excessive need for approval leads us to make decisions to please the people whose approval we seek at the cost of what''s "right" for us. This Default Setting believes that others are responsible for our worth. If they like us, we''re okay, and if they don''t like us, we are not!People who struggle with this issue usually wait for approval of others for recognition of their achievements, run a mile in the face of conflict, are over-agreeable in their relationships, say yes to more things than they should, live their lives according to expectations of them, often have a hard time solving problems or making decisions on their own, don''t speak up and often rely on others for their happiness.If you are waiting for approval from others for you to live the life you love, then you''re living by default!The Blame Default Setting makes us a victim in life. Instead of taking responsibility for what happens to us we blame the outside world. "It''s not our fault," we say, "It''s (fill in the blank!)". This Default Setting is about taking the easy way out and blaming anything for a life that''s below where it should be.Playing the blame game is closely linked with the need for drama. You know, phrases such as, "You''ll never believe what''s just happened to me!" or "Can you believe what he/she did to me!" Some people create drama in their own life, while others get caught up in the drama of friends and family, or the world in general.If your default is to point the finger, constantly complain or attract drama into your life, then you''re living by default!The Conformity Default Setting has us unconsciously chasing other people''s or society''s definitions of success. This Default Setting has us spend our waking hours working hard to fit into cookie cutter patterns of success dished up by the media. They do a great job of telling us what success is and what it is not! So we constantly spend our time and money rearranging our external world in an attempt to get the "perfect" picture. Then, and only then, we will be happy!What''s your definition of success? If you can''t answer this clearly, you''re living by default!The Focus Splatter Default Setting unconsciously pulls us to dabble in lots of things but never really commit to anything. It''s when we mindlessly and half-heartedly splatter our focus on non-result producing activities, so we never fully engage in life. But, and it''s a big but, today and every day you have a choice. That''s the choice to live your life by default or to live your life by design. Sure, external circumstances might have dealt you a bad hand but you have the choice of whether you succumb to the default loop or rise above it into the design loop.If you are fed up with living a life that feels out of control and you are ready to make conscious decisions about the type of future you would like to create, here is a step-by-step process that allows you to meet all your responsibilities whilst you

• | Author: To Create Of Your, To Create the Life Of
• | Publisher: CreateSpace Independent Publishing Platform
• | Publication Date: May 18, 2018
• | Number of Pages: 26 pages
• | Language: English
• | Binding: Paperback
• | ISBN-10: 1719341303
• | ISBN-13: 9781719341301