Everyone grows up different. Some children grow up in a normal family. Other kids grow up in an orphanage. Its hard for an orphan to trust people. They have a lot of hurt inside. An orphan have trouble making decisions. Choosing the right person to marry is one of them. Marrying a controlling person is very difficult. Nothing you do is good enough. This kind of spouse sees nothing wrong with their actions. Its always the other spouse's fault. Your fussed at in front of the kids. No respect is shown to you. This spouse is always scared to say anything, hoping the kids are not taken away from them. As the years go by, he or she finds someone else. He abandons you, leaving you with no money. Church people help you through these difficult time. Can a person become weaker or stronger going through these trials?