Overview

ABOUT THE BOOKLife Mates are both Complementary Equals-by sharing "Sameness" Cosmic Genetics--and Complementary Opposites--by each being 'Unique." But in daily functioning, mates are also Complementary Contrary Opposites from Hormone and Role Socialization differences. These mean they are not alike in thinking capabilities. But as long as they share the same African Tradition Philosophy System of Values, their joined individualized forms of thinking enable both to assess all aspects of a Thing. A result is having proper, multiple, more comprehensive views to fashion near completeness of that Thing. Mates "ME/WE" Theme is to experience "The All" of each other and "The All" of personal, shared, and external world problems as a "Oneness." Such is known by "Feeling" each other and reacting in ways that do not hurt the mate's feelings but have a 1 + 1 = 3 effect. Meanwhile, "ME/WE" Harmony means each is Uniquely oneself but interdependently are part of the Unfolding Whole of Decisions/Solutions. Still, both are to daily cultivate their Brain/Mind's Right and Left sides, but with their Spiritual Right Brain dominating. To have think, feel, say, and do Flaws is to show "Ig-norance"-i.e. an inability to perceive and/or respond to Spiritual Truth. Flaws can break up the Relationship's "Cornerstone" (basic or foundational piece) "Sacredness"-i.e. a symbol of God's presence--a wholeness representing the way things are with respect to God's plan. Correction is a top priority to restore an undivided unity (Harmony of Goodness). It is experienced as a "Oneness" with all that involves what mates are about.