Helping the teen as they transition from child to adult creates angst in most parents. Development into adult levels occurs at varying rates for physical, mental, and emotional areas of each individual and differs between male and female. A basic understanding of the individual involved is the foundation for negotiating this turbulent time and the author provides the help needed to understand not only the individuals involved in the process, but also what is involved in the process. The result is a relationship between the parent and teen that will grow in respect and appreciation as maturity is achieved.