39 Lessons for Girls is a shortlist of observations and wisdom that can help contribute to building mentally and emotionally strong girls. It also serves as a great kickstarter for having engaging conversations with girls of all ages and may assist you with what you're already teaching. 39 Lessons for Girls is not a comprehensive list, but more so a foundation to build upon. - - - - - Kenn Bivins doesn't hold a Ph.D. in child psychology nor is he a professor at some esteemed institution. But he is a godfather, dad and mentor. He knows what it's like to grow up without male guidance and wisdom. It is from those experiences that 39 Lessons for Girls was born.